Getting a new pet is exciting, and you may already be imagining the cuddly relationship you will have with your cat. While some cats are quick to warm up and be held, others are more standoffish. Building a bond with your kitten or cat can take time, so be patient. Contrary to popular belief, many felines enjoy being around people and are affectionate, even if it’s in their own way on their own time.
Go slowly and give your cat a chance to get to know you and its new home.
Get Down on Their Level
When you bring your kitten home, it may run and hide. Sit down on the floor and let it come to you. Don’t try to run after your cat and scoop it up, as this can be frightening. Just sit quietly, not making any sudden movements or loud noises. Read a book. Scroll on your phone. Jot down your grocery list on a notepad. Let your cat realize you are not a threat.
Continue this routine until your cat feels comfortable and begins to approach you and explore the room. If they come close, gently stretch out your hand, but don’t grab for them. Give your cat a chance to sniff your fingers and rub against your hand or leg when they’re ready. Then you can slowly begin to scratch their head or under their chin. This can transition into being able to rub down their back, or having your cat lie near you.
Play with Toys
Entice your cat to interact with fun toys. Tie a string to a ruler or hanger and swirl it on the floor. Bat around some pom poms or a tightly wadded ball of foil. Place catnip toys on the floor nearby. This can allow you to play with your cat without having to touch them and give them time to build trust and feel safe. Talk to your cat in a soothing, pleasant tone.
Offer Treats
As your kitten ventures out more, put a few treats on the floor near where you’re sitting. Slowly move them closer, then try offering a treat in the palm of your hand. Just be cautious not to give your cat too many snacks. You want to use non-food rewards too like chin scratches or a favorite toy.
Know When to Stay Back
If your cat is arching its back with its fur standing up or hissing, those are clear signs to give it space. Other cues are having its ears flattened and standing in a crouched position – it may be ready to jump and attack. If your feline seems agitated or threatened, give it space. Don’t force your cat to be held or drag it out of hiding. Learn your cat’s body language and what it’s telling you.
Board Your Cat
Cats are social creatures, even if it’s from a distance. They like to know where you are and be in the same room. When you’re gone, make sure your cat still has social interaction by boarding them at Lake Wylie Pet Resort. They will have their own space to relax, play, and people watch. This can also help your cat become more comfortable being around different people, places, smells, and sounds. Contact us today to book your cat’s next stay!